Sorry, but I don't understand what you mean here. Please clarify.
Yes, when God says something it is reality. But, that does not really deal with my prior point.
You said Adam and Christ were spoken words, placing the power in the words, not God, who is Triune personage, not offices.
You also said Mary was just a field where the spoken word was planted..
Words convey meaning. What you are saying here, and prior, sounds very much like Word of Faith Modalism, which you have not denied you believe.
Need some clarity here, please. Do you believe in Modalism and do you words have power, which God exercised.
There is a very big difference between God acting and speaking commands that were not required.and having to speak words of power to make something happen. God is the power.
As I said, we need to establish clarity to have a real conversation. I am being as clear as I can possible be in that effort.