Matthew 7:22-23
22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
Ephesians 2:4-9
4 But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us,
5 Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;)
6 And hath raised [us] up together, and made [us] sit together in heavenly [places] in Christ Jesus:
7 That in the ages to come he might shew the exceeding riches of his grace in [his] kindness toward us through Christ Jesus.
8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: [it is] the gift of God:
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.
Our God is a God of the living, not the dead … There are many people doing many things in His name but reject the life He has purchased for them and so they remain dead (to God) … those are the ones He never knew. Further to that, He cannot have anything to do with them as they remain unclean, defiled by sin and will remain separated from God for eternity … their choice …
If you yield to the work of God's Spirit, repent and own your sin, and then accept God's unspeakable gift, you are translated instantly and eternally from death to life the moment you believe … there is joy in heaven …
Since you are now alive and owned by God, God knows you as sons and daughters and is committed to your upbringing ... just like He asks you to do in Christian marriage, ... raising your children …